I once read on a lululemon bag that: life is full of setbacks, success is determined by how you handle those setbacks.
For over two months now, I have been looking forward to today, January 4th. Today is the day I was to start my work placement with a hip ad agency in downtown Montréal: I woke up early, put on my outfit I had laid out the night before, and made sure I tied my scarf the "cool" way that my co-worker showed me. I got on the commuter bus from the suburbs (where I am staying with my aunt) into the city, beaming with anxiousness, nervousness and excitement....
Once in town, I received an email from the agency that due to unforeseen circumstances, that I won't be able to start working until Monday. This leaves me alone in an unknown city, with no friends and nothing to do.... A little bit of a heart-breaking setback.
The back-packer in me tried to make the most of it and take this time to discover this cultural and beautiful city. I got on the subway and, having no idea where to go, I went to Old Montréal, a place full of great childhood memories of mimes and horse-drawn carriages. I had figured I could sit in a quaint coffee shop and people watch. It was desolate, apparently tourists aren't interested in visiting in the dead of winter and being the coldest day of the year (minus 27 with the wind) there was no one walking around, no people watching. I couldn't find a café (actually) and had to settle on an all-things-maple shop. I was the only person in the place. And there, I started to cry. Tears ran down my cheeks and into my cup of maple tea.
I didn't know what to do. I felt discouraged, disappointed, and all alone. I don't know what happened to the strong warrior in me. The one who travelled the world solo, the one who mountain biked down the worlds' most dangerous road, the one who started a yoga magazine for Winnipeggers...
That is it! Yoga! Why hadn't I thought of it sooner?? I googled Moksha in Montréal and saw there was a class starting in 45 minutes: 2 blocks, 3 métro stops and 5 more blocks later (did I mention that it was -27 degrees outside, brrrrrr) I made it in the knick of time and was greeted by a warm, smiling face. She could obviously see my distress (or maybe it was just the mascara running down my face) and said: just get in there and enjoy!
The class released my stress, allowed me to catch my breath, and thaw out my frozen toes...
It's one of the many things I love about yoga: no matter where in the world you can find bliss and a community in a yoga class.
This is how I have decided to handle this setback: just breathe.